Urbanity
Urbanity , noun
[Latin urbanitas; compare French urbanité.]
1.
The quality or state of being urbane; civility or courtesy of manners; politeness; refinement.
The marquis did the honors of his house with the urbanity of his country.
2.
Polite wit; facetiousness. [Obsolete] — Dryden
Raillery in the sauce of civil entertainment; and without some such tincture of urbanity, good humor falters.